Kultura Kultura Kultura My Thoughts

Kareng Indian/Hindus a akaluguran ku, ing pamakyasawa is one of their most sacred culture. This culture also may turns into violence and most of them happily(kuno) ever after. It is known around the world that Middle eastern and Oriental marriages were arranged. Wa tutu ing ela makipag Girlfriend/Boyfriend because they have a strong priciples in life. They can say "NO" nung ere buri ing i-arrange da karela and they were not forced to (culturaly). Nung atin mang antita because of the will of the Parents not the children(aliwa ing kultura da ita). Wa, mamye la ping "DOWRY" which most of it, it is their culture/trdition. And every once in awhile makaramdam tamung gagawan da mu deng aliwang lalaki for conviniences (no love). Lalu na karetang mangakwaltang babai. Atin ku pang dindam meko la keng bansa ra at anyang megisan no reng pera na ning babai, bye bye ing milyari. Just because ating divorce ketang bansang pintalan da. Atin mu namang milayari na ela sapat deng dowry silaban de ing Babai. Then again itang mesilab a babai ena buring sabyan antita ngan ing malilyari no, no no. and I wouldn't say "Deng Indian nung kulang la dowry panasakitan dala deng babai, Deng inidian ala lang choice kareng asawa da. These would be wrong statements. So, it is safe to make judgement to their cultue is "it is a arrange marriage, yes! woman will give the "dowry" and you can say No".

Atin ku namang kaluguran a Pakistani, Iranian/Muslim (they don't wanna be called indian he! he! it is really funny eyu namu sasabyan na asabi ku ita neh) also is a different story. Wa, deng lalaki pwede lang makyasawang "dakal" "Provided,! na ing first wife bisa ya at agyu da financially if not, ela pwede. It is not in the Curan though. Pwede dalang ayasawa deng karelang first cousins. Eh ya pwede ing next of kin i.e your brother or your sister. Must first cousins be forbidden to marry? In the Bible, and in many parts of the world, the answer is no. But the answer is yes in much of church law. An unrelated couple generally has a 3 percent to 4 percent risk of having a child with such problems, while marriages of close cousins add 1.7 percent to 2.8 percent to the risk. Ela maniwala kening studies a ini, uli kanung malagad mu kanung tutu ing antitang problema. Genetic problems are considerably higher with the forms of close inbreeding that the Bible forbids and secular Culture abhors as "incest."
This "Levitical law" is found in Leviticus 18:6-18, supplemented by Leviticus 20:17-21 and Deuteronomy 27:20- 23. Among the forbidden couples are parent-child, sister- brother, grandparent-grandchild, uncle-niece, aunt- nephew, and between half-siblings and certain close in-

Isn't Ironic, that is true in very many cultural practices involving women: that in Islam circumcision of females (is
not an Islamic requirement though) Chinese foot-binding, Indian suttee, Burnese neck rings ... It's usually the mothers and other women in the family that perpetuate it.

People have different culture around the world. Para kanaku datang ing panahon manaliwa ngan yan because of human rights and western influences. Give you an example, anyang anak la deng Mother at Ah-pu tamu ing malan da sasayad keng gabun ing katwiran da kanita, it is a dignified thing to do. At ngeni ing katwiran da, I have the rights to wear this and be comfortable with (eku naman buring sabyan pakakuyad na that will effects others).
Make the difference but don't change the culture you/we don't understand.